Wednesday, April 11, 2007

So why do they come and then leave?

Let me confess i didn't write this myself. My originality and self proclaimed creativity have taken a nose dive somewhere at the deep end of the ocean and although i have the usual hundred thoughts running through my head, i'm finding it tough to write anything sensible. Loved this fwd Shamu sent to me and thought everyone shud read it. Fits it very well with my paradigm on life, that a lot of it is goverened by destiny, and that we're given chances to influence it at certain junctures, and thats how the course of our lives are determined.

This one's about a common occurence, people who walk into our lives, bringing with them tremendous hope, joy and promise and then suddenly for some reason or another, it becomes tough for them to stay on. I know its supposed to be for a reason, yet have found myself wondering why and how i lost people i could actually use the word 'forever' wrt. This piece of writing sheds some light ...

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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide y ou with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or dosomething to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept thelesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime :-)

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

oh so crying about paying per download works is it?? ;-)

unpredictable said...

Looks like it does ... :)

Monsieur K said...

the problem happens when you want people who have come for a reason/season to be for a lifetime, or if the person destined to be for a lifetime leaves after a season. :)

have read this before. nevertheless, its an interesting take on people who are a part of one's life.

Sharmili said...

season reporting unpredictable :))))

thot ill be anon and post this one... but assumed u wud figure out anyway....

i read a 100 FWDs that day and see how i picked the one which i knew u wud like :))))))))))

am i not awesome :)))))))))) (see now this is something even if anyone posts, u wud know its me...)

Anonymous said...

I came in a season (IIMB) for a reason (wake me up for classes) to last a lifetime :-)

unpredictable said...

Ok r u nayak or sohit (u guys i woke up FOr lectures) or dush (him i had to wake up even during lectures .. christ!)

loser said...

the talkative girl has completely stopped talking!!!...what is this!!!!

unpredictable said...

hmmm .. my spirit is broken ...my faith lost... im rediscovering myself and my inner creativity in the throes of gloom and despair :(

OR

lemme jus be honest, cut the crap and state tht ive been working 12 hr days and havent had time to blog :P

who r u btw??? loser eh?

Anonymous said...

i dont know reason, nor season, nor lifetime...
i just know love...and love is eternal...
not bound but free....

@ b h i said...

Well unpredictable, nice one...

Kinda what happens in my life also... as I expect the person who came in for a SeAsOn to be there for a LiFeTiMe

But now I have started expecting that everyone comes for a season :)

Lets see what happens when someone comes in for a Lifetime